UNSHAMED -
The Medicine Of Sex

A weekend immersion on sexual fantasies

For practitioners, facilitators, and curious explorers
25-26 July -London

Overview

  • Deepen your understanding of desire, pleasure, shame, and shadow

  • Develop embodied tools for working more intentionally with fantasy

  • Explore erotic fantasy as deep psychological material

  • Learn frameworks applicable to personal and professional practice

Fantasy does not operate in isolation.
What happens in our erotic lives affects the rest of our lives,
and what happens in our lives shapes our erotic world too.

About this course

This weekend immersion is an experiential container at the crossroads of psychology, embodiment, pleasure, and play.

The programme draws from over 10 years of professional experience and work with 100’s of client cases.

The approach is psycho-spiritual, drawing from mythology, symbolism, embodiment, and experiential erotic practice.

Our sexual fantasies are not what we think.

What gets us hard, wet, excited, can be an expression of the symbolic language of the psyche.

Our fantasies are also not random.

They often emerge through context and circumstance, nervous system conditioning, memory, and archetypal patterning.

They can become windows into parts of ourselves seeking healing, resolution, or wholeness:

  • Unspoken desires

  • Unresolved tensions and wounds

  • Disconnected aspects of self

  • Hidden parts of the psyche seeking integration

  • Saturday & Sunday — 25–26 July

    10am–5pm

    Two full days of experiential exploration.

    The programme will centre around fantasy exploration and archetypal role-play exercises in pairs and groups.

    There will also be:

    • Lectures and theoretical frameworks

    • Guided meditations and embodied inquiry practices

    • Inquiry into projection, power, desire, and shame

    • Practical skill-building sessions

      • Introduction to flogging

      • Introduction to rope play

    • All participants must watch the documentary Unshamed prior to the workshop.
      There will be a London screening on Friday 24 July in Camden, as well as two online screenings in June.

    • Participants should have a basic capacity for introspection and self-reflection.

    • Participants should have a foundational ability to identify and communicate boundaries, desires, yeses, and nos within intimate or relational contexts.

    • Groups will be randomly assigned throughout parts of the workshop. Participants should therefore be open to engaging with a variety of people while continuing to honour their own boundaries, consent, and personal agency.

  • There will be container-wide agreements that apply to the whole group.

    Within those boundaries, participants are free to engage at their own level of comfort — from more explicit group interactions to more reflective and individual forms of exploration.

    There is no expectation to perform or participate beyond your genuine yes.

  • Finsbury Park, North London (N4)
    Full address shared upon booking.

  • £345 Early Bird — before 03 June
    £395 General Admission — from 04 June

Booking info

Book an early-bird space £345

You will be asked to complete a form

You will receive the full information on the course 2 weeks prior to the start date.