THE MEDICINE OF SEX
A 7-day course on the psycho-spiritual interpretation of our sexual fantasies and desires.
For practitioners, facilitators, and curious explorers
27 Sep - 03 Oct 2026 (Spain)
Why?
Our sexual fantasies are not what we think.
What gets us hard, wet, excited, can be an expression of the symbolic language of the psyche.
Our fantasies are also not random, and don’t operate in isolation.
What happens in our erotic lives affects the rest of our lives,
and what happens in our lives shapes our erotic world too.
They often emerge through context and circumstance, nervous system conditioning, memory, and archetypal patterning.
They can become windows into parts of ourselves seeking healing, resolution, or wholeness:
Unspoken desires
Unresolved tensions and wounds
Disconnected aspects of self
Hidden parts of the psyche seeking integration
Over the years, the Medicine of Sex has been a space in which people heal by exploring their sexual fantasies.
We've explored abuse, rape, gangbang, incest, kidnapping, etc.
Its been a space for people to meet the edges of trauma and metabolise it.
to break open.
fall to their knees,
wail, shake, rage, tremble.
And then stand…
A little taller.
Breathe…
A little wider.
Because something moved.
Together, we move the edges
of fear,
of possibility,
of shame
of permission.
A 7-Day Deep Dive Into Sexuality, Desire, Fantasy, Kink, And Taboo,
As Healing Practices.
Explore erotic fantasy as deep psychological material
Deepen your understanding of desire, pleasure, shame, and shadow
Develop embodied tools for working more intentionally with fantasy
Learn frameworks applicable to personal and professional practice
Overview
Course Curriculum
This course is an experiential container at the crossroads of psychology, embodiment, pleasure, and play.
The programme draws from over 10 years of professional experience and work with 100’s of client cases.
The approach is psycho-spiritual, drawing from mythology, symbolism, embodiment, and experiential erotic practice.
7 days of experiential exploration:
The programme centres around fantasy exploration and archetypal role-play exercises in pairs and groups.
The programme also includes :
Lectures and theoretical frameworks
Guided meditations and embodied inquiry practices
Inquiry into
The deep psychology behind your favorite fantasies.
Projection, power, desire, and shame
Trauma and the fantasy realm
Emotional processing and nervous system work
Practical skill-building sessions
Introduction to flogging
Introduction to rope play
Domination / submission in power dynamics
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✔ Men, cis or trans, who have some experience with personal growth or retreats.
✔ Practitioners with prior experience in sexuality, embodiment, or relational work
✔ This course is also suitable for facilitators and those who feel called to hold space for others in sexual contexts -
A mediterranean garden of eden
Our home for the week is Casa Dorada , a sweet retreat house built just for tantra, designed for depth.
It's tucked away on Spain’s Costa Dorada, five minutes from the beach, forty-five minutes south of Barcelona Airport.
As well as our large, light-filled temple space there's a magical outdoor pergola, an intimate massage room, a sauna, a private pool and tropical gardens.
A private, contained, beautiful cocoon built for deep erotic process. -
An in-house chef who cooks and also transmits.
German-born and living between Morocco and Spain, Nadine brings a globally inspired, deeply intuitive approach to food.
Expect international flavors, Ayurvedic touches, and healing ingredients.
Meals made with deep presence to nourish the body, regulate the nervous system, and keep us open and grounded for the work. -
Single Bed in 4-person room
Early Bird* : £1500
General: £1800
Single Bed in 2-person room
Early Bird* : £1750
General: £2050
Double Bed in 2-person room
Early Bird* : £1900
General: £2250
Private room
Early Bird* : £2150
General: £2450* Early bird prices apply till 26 June
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As A Sex Shaman, Sacred Prostitute
My job is to help people realise they are more than they think and that the world is more than they thought too.
The method is based in remembering that every part of us is worthy of love.
This happens through shamanic practice, holding a steady space of transmission and connection to Source.
This also happens by facing our shadows, holding the places that felt they couldn't be loved- often found in our sexuality.
As a teacher's teacher, I aim to create spaces for other facilitators to thrive, to find their voice, to reference themselves, their own inner knowing and truth, so we can truly innovate.
My journey began with crisis, in 2010, which led me to seek Tantra and Somatic therapy, in which I trained.
I found the Mystery School and was initiated as a Shaman in 2014.
I have authored two books, a documentary, and facilitate courses and individual teaching around the world.
Important details
*Book before 24 June to avoid late registration fee
Course begins 27 September 2026
Participants must arrive at the house by 11 am.
Please plan 2 hours travel from Barcelona airport
Course ends 03 October 2006
- 12 noon brunch
It will be possible to add a last integration night to your stay for an extra cost.
Book your space
You’ll be asked to complete a form.
You will be contacted to book a quick phone chat.
You will receive all info regarding the retreat
2 months prior to the start date.